DGALA Board of Directors Elections

DGALA, the Dartmouth Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Alumni/ae Association, is currently seeking nominations and applications for new members for our Board of Directors. This is an exciting opportunity to stay connected to life at Dartmouth and to be deeply involved in all of DGALA’s activities, including:

– Planning and vision-setting for the organization
– Providing leadership for and participating in one or more Board projects or initiatives
– Working with the College administration on policies that affect LGBTQA alumni/ae and students
– Organizing educational, social, and professional events around the country
– Mentoring young alumni/ae and current students
– Managing DGALA’s communications with its members and others, including via web properties, social media, and email
– Sponsoring important on-campus events such as annual Pride programming, all-class reunions, and mini-reunions

The DGALA Board of Directors is extremely active and members are required to commit to a minimum  level of engagement during the entirety of their terms. Minimum engagement levels are defined as:

– Participating in at least 75% of Board conference calls (usually held once a month on Saturdays)
– Playing an active leadership/co-leadership role in at least one DGALA project or initiative
– Making a financial contribution at a level that is comfortable for your budget

Prospective Board members should be aware that DGALA is a not-for-profit corporation separate and apart from the College, and that the Director role includes fiduciary responsibilities to the corporation.

Applications, nominations and questions should be emailed to DGALA at DartGala@gmail.com. To apply, please submit a resume and brief cover letter outlining your interest in serving on the DGALA Board on or before December 8, 2014. In outlining your interest in serving on the DGALA Board, please discuss the following:

– Specific DGALA initiatives that are of interest to you, and why
– Other Dartmouth alumni leadership, Non-Profit or Board experience
– How you plan to align your commitment to DGALA as a director with your schedule
– Anything special about your candidacy that we should consider

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DGALA Mission: 

The Dartmouth Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Alumni/ae Association (DGALA) strives to foster community between and among the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer and Allied (GLBTQA) alumni/ae of the College by furthering the intellectual, social, cultural and educational well-being of GLBTQA alumni/ae and students and providing the College and the greater College community with active support in matters of mutual concern.

DGALA also aims to enhance the experience of GLBTQA persons at Dartmouth and support the College’s commitment to diversity by fostering communications between and among GLBTQA alumni/ae and students, faculty, staff, administrators, the other affiliated groups and the College community as a whole.

To learn more about DGALA, visit dgala.com

Experiencing a More Inclusive Dartmouth

Dartmouth Now article, published November 17, 2014, “Experiencing a More Inclusive Dartmouth” by Caroline Kerr ’05

S. Caroline Kerr ’05 serves as president of DGALA, the Dartmouth Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender Alumni/ae Association.

Dartmouth Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Alumni/ae Association President S. Caroline Kerr '05 head shot

I savor those rare moments that are pinnacles of community. Moments when you have time to pause, reflect, and celebrate a community’s history, present, and future. Dartmouth’s lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and allied community is marking historic milestones this fall and enjoying many of these moments.

Over the weekend of Oct. 31 through Nov. 2, DGALA, Dartmouth’s LGBTQIA alumni association, celebrated its 30th anniversary with an all-class reunion that brought more than 200 alumni, students, faculty, staff, spouses, partners, and friends together in Hanover. The weekend events included the celebration of Triangle House, a new Living and Learning Community that supports LGBTQIA students.

The DGALA anniversary provided many moments when Dartmouth’s past and future came together. For some alumni, this was the first return to campus in decades, as their own time in Hanover was painful. One alumnus shared with me that he came to Dartmouth as a legacy, hoping to love the College as much as his father and his classmates had. Dartmouth wasn’t a welcoming place for him, and he described feeling cheated out of that storied Dartmouth experience. But this alumnus, along with others who suffered here as students, keeps coming back. Their resilience is remarkable, and they enjoyed a weekend of events and a community that embraced them. Some encountered a Dartmouth that they could proudly reclaim.

Alumni were welcomed back to campus by the rainbow lights shining on Blunt Alumni Center, with a DGALA banner and rainbow pride flag flying from the front. The weekend began with a reception hosted by President Phil Hanlon ’77 at Rauner Special Collections Library. The special collections team pulled articles, programs, and other items out of the archives that spanned gay history at Dartmouth between 1900 and 2014. Jim Noonan ’01 and Jimmy McNicholas ’01 took the stage in Collis and performed their fabulous Dartmouth Halloween show, Go Big Queen!, to a packed audience of students, alumni, and staff.

On Saturday morning we started early with a hike up to the fire tower on Gile Mountain in Norwich. Associate Professor of Government Sonu Bedi gave a lively talk on the future of civil marriage. Mid-day, the group convened at Triangle House, a place where LGBTQIA and allied students can spend time talking about topics related to their community, intellectual life, and social justice.

The first residents of the house moved in this fall, and the opening ceremony celebrated the long road to making Triangle House a reality, including the role alumni have played, from advocating for its existence, to serving on planning committees, to raising more than $500,000 to date to support construction and almost $90,000 for programming—a figure that exceeded the initial $500,000 goal for construction only. The ceremony and sheer existence of the house constitute a historic moment for Dartmouth, and a most moving one for alumni.

The day continued with a talk by Eric Fanning ’90, a member of DGALA and undersecretary of the U.S. Air Force. The event was the result of a collaboration between DGALA and the Dartmouth Uniform Service Alumni group (DUSA). We then enjoyed a special tour of the Hood Museum exhibit “Witness: Art and Civil Rights in the Sixties,” and wrapped up the evening with an awards gala at which several alumni were honored. Pete Williams ’76 received the Hero Award for his exceptional dedication and decades of service as DGALA’s secretary and treasurer. Lee Merkle-Raymond ’86 received the Leadership Award as one of DGALA’s early leaders and the first female president. Amanda Rosenblum ’07 and Laura Erickson-Schroth Med ’09 received the Vanguard Award for their groundbreaking work Trans Bodies, Trans Selves.

Sunday morning began with a celebratory service at the Top of the Hop, led by the Rev. Nancy Vogele ’85, DGALA member and director of Religious and Spiritual Life at the College. The Rockapellas performed Born This Way, Ella’s Song, and Same Love, with lyrics by rapper Angel Haze.

A member of the group spoke about how important it was to her to have alumni back on campus. Our presence, she said, helps make the College a place where she can be her full self. Andrew Nalani ’16 spoke as a straight man from Uganda whose own views have evolved over time. He gave a beautiful blessing, and we closed the weekend with a brunch and community forum discussing what’s next for DGALA.

At moments like these, I see Dartmouth at its best: innovative and inclusive. I look forward to many more in the future.

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Original Article: http://now.dartmouth.edu/2014/11/vox-populi-experiencing-a-more-inclusive-dartmouth

Got Something to Say? Members of the Dartmouth community are invited to submit essays for possible publication on Dartmouth Now. Email essays to:dartmouth.now@dartmouth.edu.

2014 All Class Reunion Photos and Recap

We would like to thank so many of you for attending our 2014 All Class Reunion in Hanover! Please take our brief post-reunion survey (regardless of whether you attended) to let us know about your experience: Survey Link

All Class Reunion Photos: If you have Reunion photos that you would like to share, please either post on Facebook or send them to dgala2014reunion@gmail.com so that we can host them on our page. Existing photos from the weekend can also be found on the DGALA Flickr and DGALA Facebook pages.

Board of Directors Elections: We will be holding Board of Directors elections in December of 2014. If you are interested in running for the Board and would like to see a full job description, please contact us at dartgala@gmail.com. Information about the current Board of Directors can be found at: dgala.com/about/board

Triangle House Giving: Additionally, there is also still time to contribute to Triangle House Dartmouth’s new LGBTQIA Living and Learning Community. Give online before the November 30th contribution deadline! (leadership level of $2,500+ for inclusion on the plaque)

Mentorship Program: We are also looking for alumni willing to mentor students over the course of a year (and beyond) through our mentorship program. The time commitment would be a couple hours per month for phone and/or videoconference contact with your “mentee.” If you are interested in becoming a DGALA mentor, please contact Director Rigel Cable ’10 (rigel.cable@gmail.com). Please note, mentorship is not restricted to career and networking but also life coaching, academic, interest-based etc. Please contact DGALA or Rigel with any questions.

All Class Reunion Pre-Party in NYC!

DGALA 2014 All Class Reunion Pre-Party in NYC!
Please join DGALA and many NYC alumni for drinks and appetizers on Friday, October 17th in Hells Kitchen to find out more about what’s in store for the big weekend up in Hanover.
Come to catch-up with old friends and hear more about Triangle House and DGALA’s 30th Anniversary, even if you’re not able to attend the DGALA All Class Reunion.  It’s going to be a fun happy hour!

LBT GALA Women’s Mixer, All-Ivy and Friends, at Bamboo 52

DGALA, Yale GALA, FFR/Princeton BTGALA, The Manhattan Lesbian Party List (MLPL) and OP Lynx present …
LBT GALA Women’s Mixer, All-Ivy and Friends, at Bamboo 52
When: Monday, October 6, 6-8:30 pm
Where: Bamboo 52 Sushi Bar and Lounge, 344 W. 52nd St (bet 8th & 9th Aves), NYC.  Indoor lounges and outdoor patio: we have the whole place
Cost: FREE ENTRY for all GALA members (any school) with RSVP; cash / credit bar (with drink specials) and food (sushi, salads, desserts). 
Drink Specials: $5 margaritas and $5 sake bombs, 2-for-1 signature cocktails, plus wine and beer specials and from the extensive menu.
Advance RSVP:  http://goo.gl/MVKZ5H
Join us for a fun and casual LBT Women’s Mixer on Monday, October 6, 6-8:30 pm at Bamboo 52 Sushi Bar and Lounge, 52nd Street between 8th & 9th Aves. We will be in the indoor lounge and the outdoor patio.  There will be women everywhere at this attitude-free, after-work, fun networking mixer.
The mixer is organized by OP Lynx (Out Professionals Women’s Subgroup), in cooperation with Yale GALA. Everyone is welcome to join us for the event.
RSVP link (for free entry): http://goo.gl/MVKZ5H
If you are unsure of your attendance please RSVP and simply no-show if something comes up.  Thank you.

Triangle House Giving

If you would like to donate to Triangle House, visit Triangle House Giving at Dartmouth College.

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The aim of the Triangle House program is to enhance the intellectual and cultural environment of the Dartmouth College campus with particular regard to those issues which pertain to the historical and contemporary experiences of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, and allied people by accomplishing the following learning objectives:

  1. Community – Foster a strong sense of community and well-being among LGBTQIA students, based on mutual accountability and respect.
  2. Knowledge – Develop knowledge of LGBTQIA histories, identities, culture, and politics.
  3. Action – Increase exposure to and experiential practice of contemporary models of social justice organizing, service, and action.

Triangle House is open to undergraduate students of all class years. Available housing options include four one-room doubles and seventeen singles. Rooms may be assigned without regard to gender.

For more information about Triangle House, visit:
http://www.dartmouth.edu/livinglearning/communities/trianglehouse.html

Ivy+ Pride at Denver Bicycle Cafe

Dartmouth GALA, Stanford Pride, Cornell U GALA, Harvard GLC, and FFR/Princeton BTGALA Present…
An LGBT Intercollegiate Fall Alumni Mixer
Denver, CO

WHEN: Wednesday, October 15, 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM
WHERE: Denver Bicycle Cafe, 1308 E 17th Ave, Denver, CO 80218
COST: No Cover, Cash Bar & Food
RSVP: Please RSVP at http://tigernet.princeton.edu/~ffr-gala/AlternateEmail.html

Join Ivy+ LGBTQ alumni and friends for local craft brews, coffee, and conversation at Denver Bicycle Cafe. Friends, partners, and significant others welcome! Please RSVP using the link above.

Co-sponsored by Stanford Pride, Cornell U GALA, Harvard GLC, Dartmouth GALA, and FFR/Princeton BTGALA.

Details: http://tigernet.princeton.edu/~ffr-gala/Events2014/141015CO.html

New York LBT Mixer – Libations and Litigations

Yale GALA, FFR/Princeton BTGALA, DGALA (Dartmouth), CUGALA (Cornell), PennGALA, The Manhattan Lesbian Party List (MLPL) and Lambda Legal proudly present …

LBT WOMEN’S MIXER Libations and Litigations VI (for Lambda Legal)
An Annual Women’s Event

When: Wednesday, September 10, 6-8:30 pm.  (Last call 8 pm)
Where: The beautiful Atrium Space at 1 Madison Avenue at 23rd Street, NYC, in the Credit Suisse building.
Cost: $40 (donation to Lambda Legal), includes open bar and food, $20 donation rate for law students (any school).

Celebrate women and LGBTQ Equality with Lambda Legal as you catch up with old friends and meet new ones, in the beautiful Atrium space. We expect 100+ women to attend.  6:45 pm – brief remarks by Suzanne Sommer (Yale ’83, Yale Law ’86), Director of Constitutional Litigation and Senior Counsel, Lambda Legal.
(The event is generously donated by Credit Suisse, such that 100% of the entrance money benefits the charity Lambda Legal. 0% overhead events are rare).

RSVP: Pre-registration is strongly recommended, due to limited space and building security: http://goo.gl/sN7c8o

Pre-registration strongly recommended (for building security and limited space): http://goo.gl/sN7c8o

Dartmouth to Host IvyQ Conference

Dartmouth to Host IvyQ in Fall 2014

Dartmouth will host IvyQ on Nov 6-9, 2014, the weekend after the DGALA All-Class Reunion (Oct 31-Nov 2). The student planning committee is seeking alum participation:

  • Alums interested in hosting a workshop or participate in a panel on topics such as Poetry, Asexuality, Queer Histories, ARt (non-poets), STEM panel, Wellness, Ability, Class, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality, Identity, Advocacy, Faith, and Diasporas and Internationalism.
  • Alums with connections to companies or organizations that would be interested in sponsoring the IvyQ conference. The fundraising committee is actively seeking individual, corporate, and organizational sponsors.
  • For more info, email: ivyqprogramming@gmail.com

IvyQ is an annual undergraduate conference focused on issues of gender, sexuality, identity, and leadership and is open to students throughout the Ivy League. Through meaningful and diverse programming and community-building, IvyQ aims to create an intercollegiate community of LGBTQ students and allies equipped with the skills to examine self-identities, value those of others, and understand the importance of intersectionality. While empowering all students to feel confident in their identities and their potential to instill positive change in their own lives and the communities they inhabit, IvyQ stresses the acknowledgment of our institutional privilege and seeks lasting social change for LGBTQ communities.

Private Curator Tour of Anthony Friedkin: The Gay Essay

Private Curator Tour of Anthony Friedkin: The Gay Essay

Date: Sunday, August 24th
Time: 8:45am – 10:30am
Place: de Young Museum
50 Hagiwara Tea Garden Drive, San Francisco
Cost: $30 for Member, $40 for Non-Member, $20 for Student Member, $25 for Young Alum Member (Includes museum tickets and docent-led tour. Breakfast on your own.)

When RSVPing, please state if you are DGALA dues-paying member to be charged the member rates advertised.
The Gay Essay was a self-assigned project and, although largely unknown today, it arguably comprises the most important set of photographs in Friedkin’s portfolio to date. Dartmouth Silicon Valley and the Dartmouth Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Alumni/ae Association (DGALA) invite alumni/ae and their guests to a special, curator-led tour before the de Young opens to the public. Join us on as we experience the exhibit with Julian Cox, Chief Curator and one of the country’s leading authorities on photography, followed by breakfast in the museum café.

Landed: Together in Canada by Sarah Foy ’01

Landed: Together in Canada by Sarah Foy ’01

The Landed exhibition opens on May 28 with the launch of DOC NOW, the Ryerson University documentary media festival. Landed is also an official affiliate event of WorldPride 2014 Toronto, and will be in the Emerging Artists Project gallery at the Elgin and Winter Garden Theatre Centre, May 24 to June 29. For gallery hours and more information, visit: www.landedtogether.ca.

What was the inspiration for Landed: Together in Canada?

“I am an American, and in 2009, I fell in love with a non-American. At the time, U.S. federal law did not recognize same-sex marriage, and it did not permit U.S. citizens to sponsor their same-sex partners for permanent residence in the U.S. For my partner and me, this meant that our only viable option was to leave the U.S. when her student visa expired in 2012. We left our home, our community of friends and family, and our jobs and professional networks for the hope of finding a permanent home together.

“Fortunately in our case, my partner is Canadian. Because the Canadian government recognizes same-sex relationships, it was fairly straightforward for me to begin the process of immigrating to Canada as her partner. For many binational couples, the situation is far more complex because neither partner is from a country that recognizes same-sex relationships. Within a couple of weeks of my arrival in Canada, I met another couple who landed here for this reason. This inspired me to find as many couples as I could who immigrated to Canada because they could not live together in the U.S. I ended up identifying over 50 couples (including one who contacted me after reading about my project on the WorldPride website), 17 of whom I interviewed and photographed for Landed.”

Future plans:

“I am in the process of thinking through how I might continue to work on my thesis project. I would love to arrange for an exhibition of Landed in a gallery in the U.S. I may also seek funding to expand the project, e.g., to same-sex binational couples without a connection to the U.S. (or Canada), or to LGBT individuals who have sought refuge in Canada because it is too dangerous or difficult for them to live in their own countries.”

LGBT Canadian Project

Sarah Foy '01 LGBT Canadian Project

Landed Together in Canada - LGBT Canada

Landed Together in Canada: LGBT

Landed Together in Canada Sarah Foy '01

 

 

 

 

An Interview with Nancy Vogele ’85

Nancy Vogele ’85 Profile & Interview

In December 2012 the Reverend Nancy Vogele ’85, an Episcopal Priest, was named by the Tucker Foundation to become Director of Religious and Spiritual Life at Dartmouth. Prior to joining the Foundation, Nancy served almost twenty years in Episcopal parish ministry, most recently as Rector of St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in White River Junction for over a decade. Nancy was a Director and Vice President of DGALA from 2000 to 2003, and served as co-chair of DGALA’s first all-class reunion in the fall of 2002. She was appointed in 2008 to serve on the Vermont Commission on Family Recognition and Protection to study same-sex marriage in Vermont. The Commission’s findings were instrumental in Vermont’s landmark legislation granting marriage equality to all.


Would you tell us a bit about the Tucker Foundation and your role in it?

The Tucker Foundation began in the mid 1950s as the moral and spiritual authority of the College. Today it is Dartmouth’s Center for Service, Spirituality, and Social Justice. We literally have thousands of students engaged each year with our many programs. I am currently the Director of Religious and Spiritual Life. In addition to overall Foundation work, I focus providing programming and one-on-one work that helps students (and others) who are interested to grow deeper in their faith as well as multi-faith programming that help foster an appreciation and knowledge of the role faith plays in peoples’ lives (on campus, across the country, and throughout the world). One part of my role is that I oversee about two dozen student religious groups and their 30+ advisors.

What’s it like to be back at Dartmouth and working with students?

I love working with students! Even when I was a local parish priest, Pam Misener would contact me whenever she thought a student could benefit from talking with me. Now, I spend a good portion of my time working directly with students. I feel this helps me keep perspective on the administrative part of my position! The Dartmouth students I work with are so smart, energetic, creative, and deeply

Are there any parts of your current role that you find particularly enjoyable or moving?

Working with students. During Winter Term, I also shepherded another group into being: “Journey Inward, Journey Outward.” This group, started by two international students, is designed to help fellow students explore what is at their core that brings vitality to their lives and then how to live from the place of vitality. I’m their “elder” (!) and I don’t mind the term because the student who gave me the title is from Uganda where elders are respected.

What opportunities do you have to collaborate with colleagues across campus?

During Winter Term, I co-facilitated an Intergroup Dialogue on sexuality with 10 students. Our IGD met for 2 hours each week – which is a big time commitment for students and the facilitators. But it was so worth it. Together we learned about gender and sexuality and shared our life stories. Students got to be real and themselves and really appreciated being able to have a safe and brave space to explore these issues. This program was developed through the Office of Pluralism and Leadership (OPAL). I interact with these wonderful people on a weekly basis. Since it is just my nature to be about campus collaborating with other departments and folks, I think I spend ½ my time doing this. I am part of the Orientation Committee for next fall’s incoming call of 2018; I am a member of the search committee for a staff position in OPAL; I talk with a lot of people across campus about mindfulness and meditation; and am always looking for possible new partners and friends. It’s great to have so many here at Dartmouth.

What changes have you observed in the climate for LGBT individuals at Dartmouth, from when you were a student, through when you were a DGALA leader, through today?

First of all, when I was a student – way back when (1981-1985), there was VERY little in terms of LGBT support. There was no OPAL; no IDE (Institute of Diversity and Equity). There probably was some sort of Gay-Lesbian student group, but I didn’t know about it. All I know if that I went to a frat with a gay friend of mine and while I was using the restroom, he got kicked out of the party. There was no one to register a complaint with. Today, there is a way to anonymously register such a complaint (a “bias incident report”) on-line (another thing we didn’t have when I was a student – believe it or not!!). There is an advisor for LGBTQ students, a Center for Gender and Student Engagement, a Gender Neutral Living and Learning community, and a soon to be opened Triangle House. And there are official policies against discriminating along sexual orientation or gender lines. None of this was present when I was a student. There was also no DGALA acting on behalf of the students and the College. DGALA is a very important and powerful alumni group and we use our power judiciously and well. We must never take this for granted but also shirk from the responsibility was have to be a voice of inclusion for all.

What are your hopes for LGBT students at Dartmouth today?

Like all students, I hope their Dartmouth experience will help them think in totally new ways about this world we live in and how it operates as well as about themselves: Who are they? Who do they want to be? What gives them a sense of vitality and purpose? What brings them deep joy?

What are you looking forward to regarding DGALA’s 30th? 

I can’t wait to see other LGBTQ alumni and all the smiles and laughter that happens when we all come together. I only went to one of my class reunions and ended up hanging out with all the queer alums from the various class reunions. I realized, at least for me, the DGALA reunions were the most positive way for me to reconnect with other alums and enjoy each other’s company. It will also be great for everyone to see the finished Triangle Office and getting to interact with alums and students involved in this effort.

DGALA Spring Newsletter Available!

The Spring 2014 GREEN LIGHT is now available online! View our latest newsletter here: Spring 2014.
The GREEN LIGHT is the official newsletter of The Dartmouth Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Alumni/ae Association

Special focus in the latest GREEN LIGHT on upcoming DGALA events:
MINI REUNION: JUNE 13-14, 2014
ALL-CLASS REUNION October 31-November 2, 2014

Edited by Pete Williams ’76
e-mail: DartGALA@gmail.com

 

Pride Weekend @ Dartmouth College - LGBT PRide

Join DGALA June 13-14 in Hanover for our Annual Mini-Reunion

Join DGALA June 13-14 in Hanover for our Annual Mini-Reunion

All classes are invited and all events are FREE!
The tentative schedule for the weekend includes:

Friday June 13th

10:00PM – Midnight
DGALA Cocktails (Open Bar!)

Saturday June 14th

9:00AM – 10:00AM
DGALA Annual Reunion Breakfast with President Phil Hanlon ’77

11:00 AM – Noon
Special DGALA-Only Hood Museum Tour

2:00PM – 3:00PM
DGALA-Only Tour of Triangle House

6:00PM – 8:00PM
Informal Dinner with Students

DGALA dorm housing available for a limited time only!  For information e-mail dartgala@gmail.com.

4th Annual LGBT Women’s Pride in the Pines

4th Annual LGBT Women’s Pride in the Pines Dance Party
(Over 400 LBT Women Expected) 

When: Saturday, June 21, 2014.  2:30 – 6 pm
Where: Whyte Hall, Fire Island Pines

More info visit: https://www.hmi.org/womens-pride
Facebook event page: https://www.facebook.com/events/521866887891551

Host Committee Includes: DGALA, FFR/Princeton BTGALA, Yale GALA
For additional information about the event please contact DGALA Director Melanie Pastuck ’11 <mpastuck@gmail.com>

Dance Cost: $75 (before 5/1), then $90 (5/1 to 6/20) and $125 at the door (if available).  Tickets mostly tax-deductible.
RSVP: Advance tickets are available at HMI.org https://www.hmi.org/womens-pride

Join us on Saturday, June 21 in Fire Island for the 4th annual LBT Women’s Pride in the Pines Dance (400 women expected), including COMPLIMENTARY wine, vodka & hors d’oeuvres plus a great silent auction (fantastic high-end bargains in 2013, such as theatre tickets and travel).  Music by DJ/Producer Charo Velecio.  Dress code: Classic White.  Pride in the Pines benefits an LGBT charity each year (rotates): in 2014 HMI (the Hetrick Martin Institute) is the beneficiary.  HMI helps LGBTQ youth to reach their full potential, especially at-risk youth and homeless young people: 40% of homeless youth are LGBT and 30% are thrown out of their homes after they come out.  In 2013 over 75% of event proceeds benefited the designated charity.

To get to Whyte Hall from NYC: via Sayville Ferry (http://www.sayvilleferry.com – $16 round-trip) or take the special MTA LIRR-Ferry packages (take the Manhattan or Brooklyn LIRR to Sayville LIRR Station, transfer via Colonial Taxi to Ferry – $31 round-trip package) or via water taxi from any other beach on the Island.