Experiencing a More Inclusive Dartmouth

Dartmouth Now article, published November 17, 2014, “Experiencing a More Inclusive Dartmouth” by Caroline Kerr ’05

S. Caroline Kerr ’05 serves as president of DGALA, the Dartmouth Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender Alumni/ae Association.

Dartmouth Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Alumni/ae Association President S. Caroline Kerr '05 head shot

I savor those rare moments that are pinnacles of community. Moments when you have time to pause, reflect, and celebrate a community’s history, present, and future. Dartmouth’s lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and allied community is marking historic milestones this fall and enjoying many of these moments.

Over the weekend of Oct. 31 through Nov. 2, DGALA, Dartmouth’s LGBTQIA alumni association, celebrated its 30th anniversary with an all-class reunion that brought more than 200 alumni, students, faculty, staff, spouses, partners, and friends together in Hanover. The weekend events included the celebration of Triangle House, a new Living and Learning Community that supports LGBTQIA students.

The DGALA anniversary provided many moments when Dartmouth’s past and future came together. For some alumni, this was the first return to campus in decades, as their own time in Hanover was painful. One alumnus shared with me that he came to Dartmouth as a legacy, hoping to love the College as much as his father and his classmates had. Dartmouth wasn’t a welcoming place for him, and he described feeling cheated out of that storied Dartmouth experience. But this alumnus, along with others who suffered here as students, keeps coming back. Their resilience is remarkable, and they enjoyed a weekend of events and a community that embraced them. Some encountered a Dartmouth that they could proudly reclaim.

Alumni were welcomed back to campus by the rainbow lights shining on Blunt Alumni Center, with a DGALA banner and rainbow pride flag flying from the front. The weekend began with a reception hosted by President Phil Hanlon ’77 at Rauner Special Collections Library. The special collections team pulled articles, programs, and other items out of the archives that spanned gay history at Dartmouth between 1900 and 2014. Jim Noonan ’01 and Jimmy McNicholas ’01 took the stage in Collis and performed their fabulous Dartmouth Halloween show, Go Big Queen!, to a packed audience of students, alumni, and staff.

On Saturday morning we started early with a hike up to the fire tower on Gile Mountain in Norwich. Associate Professor of Government Sonu Bedi gave a lively talk on the future of civil marriage. Mid-day, the group convened at Triangle House, a place where LGBTQIA and allied students can spend time talking about topics related to their community, intellectual life, and social justice.

The first residents of the house moved in this fall, and the opening ceremony celebrated the long road to making Triangle House a reality, including the role alumni have played, from advocating for its existence, to serving on planning committees, to raising more than $500,000 to date to support construction and almost $90,000 for programming—a figure that exceeded the initial $500,000 goal for construction only. The ceremony and sheer existence of the house constitute a historic moment for Dartmouth, and a most moving one for alumni.

The day continued with a talk by Eric Fanning ’90, a member of DGALA and undersecretary of the U.S. Air Force. The event was the result of a collaboration between DGALA and the Dartmouth Uniform Service Alumni group (DUSA). We then enjoyed a special tour of the Hood Museum exhibit “Witness: Art and Civil Rights in the Sixties,” and wrapped up the evening with an awards gala at which several alumni were honored. Pete Williams ’76 received the Hero Award for his exceptional dedication and decades of service as DGALA’s secretary and treasurer. Lee Merkle-Raymond ’86 received the Leadership Award as one of DGALA’s early leaders and the first female president. Amanda Rosenblum ’07 and Laura Erickson-Schroth Med ’09 received the Vanguard Award for their groundbreaking work Trans Bodies, Trans Selves.

Sunday morning began with a celebratory service at the Top of the Hop, led by the Rev. Nancy Vogele ’85, DGALA member and director of Religious and Spiritual Life at the College. The Rockapellas performed Born This Way, Ella’s Song, and Same Love, with lyrics by rapper Angel Haze.

A member of the group spoke about how important it was to her to have alumni back on campus. Our presence, she said, helps make the College a place where she can be her full self. Andrew Nalani ’16 spoke as a straight man from Uganda whose own views have evolved over time. He gave a beautiful blessing, and we closed the weekend with a brunch and community forum discussing what’s next for DGALA.

At moments like these, I see Dartmouth at its best: innovative and inclusive. I look forward to many more in the future.

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Original Article: http://now.dartmouth.edu/2014/11/vox-populi-experiencing-a-more-inclusive-dartmouth

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2014 All Class Reunion Photos and Recap

We would like to thank so many of you for attending our 2014 All Class Reunion in Hanover! Please take our brief post-reunion survey (regardless of whether you attended) to let us know about your experience: Survey Link

All Class Reunion Photos: If you have Reunion photos that you would like to share, please either post on Facebook or send them to dgala2014reunion@gmail.com so that we can host them on our page. Existing photos from the weekend can also be found on the DGALA Flickr and DGALA Facebook pages.

Board of Directors Elections: We will be holding Board of Directors elections in December of 2014. If you are interested in running for the Board and would like to see a full job description, please contact us at dartgala@gmail.com. Information about the current Board of Directors can be found at: dgala.com/about/board

Triangle House Giving: Additionally, there is also still time to contribute to Triangle House Dartmouth’s new LGBTQIA Living and Learning Community. Give online before the November 30th contribution deadline! (leadership level of $2,500+ for inclusion on the plaque)

Mentorship Program: We are also looking for alumni willing to mentor students over the course of a year (and beyond) through our mentorship program. The time commitment would be a couple hours per month for phone and/or videoconference contact with your “mentee.” If you are interested in becoming a DGALA mentor, please contact Director Rigel Cable ’10 (rigel.cable@gmail.com). Please note, mentorship is not restricted to career and networking but also life coaching, academic, interest-based etc. Please contact DGALA or Rigel with any questions.

All Class Reunion Pre-Party in NYC!

DGALA 2014 All Class Reunion Pre-Party in NYC!
Please join DGALA and many NYC alumni for drinks and appetizers on Friday, October 17th in Hells Kitchen to find out more about what’s in store for the big weekend up in Hanover.
Come to catch-up with old friends and hear more about Triangle House and DGALA’s 30th Anniversary, even if you’re not able to attend the DGALA All Class Reunion.  It’s going to be a fun happy hour!

New York LBT Mixer – Libations and Litigations

Yale GALA, FFR/Princeton BTGALA, DGALA (Dartmouth), CUGALA (Cornell), PennGALA, The Manhattan Lesbian Party List (MLPL) and Lambda Legal proudly present …

LBT WOMEN’S MIXER Libations and Litigations VI (for Lambda Legal)
An Annual Women’s Event

When: Wednesday, September 10, 6-8:30 pm.  (Last call 8 pm)
Where: The beautiful Atrium Space at 1 Madison Avenue at 23rd Street, NYC, in the Credit Suisse building.
Cost: $40 (donation to Lambda Legal), includes open bar and food, $20 donation rate for law students (any school).

Celebrate women and LGBTQ Equality with Lambda Legal as you catch up with old friends and meet new ones, in the beautiful Atrium space. We expect 100+ women to attend.  6:45 pm – brief remarks by Suzanne Sommer (Yale ’83, Yale Law ’86), Director of Constitutional Litigation and Senior Counsel, Lambda Legal.
(The event is generously donated by Credit Suisse, such that 100% of the entrance money benefits the charity Lambda Legal. 0% overhead events are rare).

RSVP: Pre-registration is strongly recommended, due to limited space and building security: http://goo.gl/sN7c8o

Pre-registration strongly recommended (for building security and limited space): http://goo.gl/sN7c8o

Landed: Together in Canada by Sarah Foy ’01

Landed: Together in Canada by Sarah Foy ’01

The Landed exhibition opens on May 28 with the launch of DOC NOW, the Ryerson University documentary media festival. Landed is also an official affiliate event of WorldPride 2014 Toronto, and will be in the Emerging Artists Project gallery at the Elgin and Winter Garden Theatre Centre, May 24 to June 29. For gallery hours and more information, visit: www.landedtogether.ca.

What was the inspiration for Landed: Together in Canada?

“I am an American, and in 2009, I fell in love with a non-American. At the time, U.S. federal law did not recognize same-sex marriage, and it did not permit U.S. citizens to sponsor their same-sex partners for permanent residence in the U.S. For my partner and me, this meant that our only viable option was to leave the U.S. when her student visa expired in 2012. We left our home, our community of friends and family, and our jobs and professional networks for the hope of finding a permanent home together.

“Fortunately in our case, my partner is Canadian. Because the Canadian government recognizes same-sex relationships, it was fairly straightforward for me to begin the process of immigrating to Canada as her partner. For many binational couples, the situation is far more complex because neither partner is from a country that recognizes same-sex relationships. Within a couple of weeks of my arrival in Canada, I met another couple who landed here for this reason. This inspired me to find as many couples as I could who immigrated to Canada because they could not live together in the U.S. I ended up identifying over 50 couples (including one who contacted me after reading about my project on the WorldPride website), 17 of whom I interviewed and photographed for Landed.”

Future plans:

“I am in the process of thinking through how I might continue to work on my thesis project. I would love to arrange for an exhibition of Landed in a gallery in the U.S. I may also seek funding to expand the project, e.g., to same-sex binational couples without a connection to the U.S. (or Canada), or to LGBT individuals who have sought refuge in Canada because it is too dangerous or difficult for them to live in their own countries.”

LGBT Canadian Project

Sarah Foy '01 LGBT Canadian Project

Landed Together in Canada - LGBT Canada

Landed Together in Canada: LGBT

Landed Together in Canada Sarah Foy '01

 

 

 

 

An Interview with Nancy Vogele ’85

Nancy Vogele ’85 Profile & Interview

In December 2012 the Reverend Nancy Vogele ’85, an Episcopal Priest, was named by the Tucker Foundation to become Director of Religious and Spiritual Life at Dartmouth. Prior to joining the Foundation, Nancy served almost twenty years in Episcopal parish ministry, most recently as Rector of St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in White River Junction for over a decade. Nancy was a Director and Vice President of DGALA from 2000 to 2003, and served as co-chair of DGALA’s first all-class reunion in the fall of 2002. She was appointed in 2008 to serve on the Vermont Commission on Family Recognition and Protection to study same-sex marriage in Vermont. The Commission’s findings were instrumental in Vermont’s landmark legislation granting marriage equality to all.


Would you tell us a bit about the Tucker Foundation and your role in it?

The Tucker Foundation began in the mid 1950s as the moral and spiritual authority of the College. Today it is Dartmouth’s Center for Service, Spirituality, and Social Justice. We literally have thousands of students engaged each year with our many programs. I am currently the Director of Religious and Spiritual Life. In addition to overall Foundation work, I focus providing programming and one-on-one work that helps students (and others) who are interested to grow deeper in their faith as well as multi-faith programming that help foster an appreciation and knowledge of the role faith plays in peoples’ lives (on campus, across the country, and throughout the world). One part of my role is that I oversee about two dozen student religious groups and their 30+ advisors.

What’s it like to be back at Dartmouth and working with students?

I love working with students! Even when I was a local parish priest, Pam Misener would contact me whenever she thought a student could benefit from talking with me. Now, I spend a good portion of my time working directly with students. I feel this helps me keep perspective on the administrative part of my position! The Dartmouth students I work with are so smart, energetic, creative, and deeply

Are there any parts of your current role that you find particularly enjoyable or moving?

Working with students. During Winter Term, I also shepherded another group into being: “Journey Inward, Journey Outward.” This group, started by two international students, is designed to help fellow students explore what is at their core that brings vitality to their lives and then how to live from the place of vitality. I’m their “elder” (!) and I don’t mind the term because the student who gave me the title is from Uganda where elders are respected.

What opportunities do you have to collaborate with colleagues across campus?

During Winter Term, I co-facilitated an Intergroup Dialogue on sexuality with 10 students. Our IGD met for 2 hours each week – which is a big time commitment for students and the facilitators. But it was so worth it. Together we learned about gender and sexuality and shared our life stories. Students got to be real and themselves and really appreciated being able to have a safe and brave space to explore these issues. This program was developed through the Office of Pluralism and Leadership (OPAL). I interact with these wonderful people on a weekly basis. Since it is just my nature to be about campus collaborating with other departments and folks, I think I spend ½ my time doing this. I am part of the Orientation Committee for next fall’s incoming call of 2018; I am a member of the search committee for a staff position in OPAL; I talk with a lot of people across campus about mindfulness and meditation; and am always looking for possible new partners and friends. It’s great to have so many here at Dartmouth.

What changes have you observed in the climate for LGBT individuals at Dartmouth, from when you were a student, through when you were a DGALA leader, through today?

First of all, when I was a student – way back when (1981-1985), there was VERY little in terms of LGBT support. There was no OPAL; no IDE (Institute of Diversity and Equity). There probably was some sort of Gay-Lesbian student group, but I didn’t know about it. All I know if that I went to a frat with a gay friend of mine and while I was using the restroom, he got kicked out of the party. There was no one to register a complaint with. Today, there is a way to anonymously register such a complaint (a “bias incident report”) on-line (another thing we didn’t have when I was a student – believe it or not!!). There is an advisor for LGBTQ students, a Center for Gender and Student Engagement, a Gender Neutral Living and Learning community, and a soon to be opened Triangle House. And there are official policies against discriminating along sexual orientation or gender lines. None of this was present when I was a student. There was also no DGALA acting on behalf of the students and the College. DGALA is a very important and powerful alumni group and we use our power judiciously and well. We must never take this for granted but also shirk from the responsibility was have to be a voice of inclusion for all.

What are your hopes for LGBT students at Dartmouth today?

Like all students, I hope their Dartmouth experience will help them think in totally new ways about this world we live in and how it operates as well as about themselves: Who are they? Who do they want to be? What gives them a sense of vitality and purpose? What brings them deep joy?

What are you looking forward to regarding DGALA’s 30th? 

I can’t wait to see other LGBTQ alumni and all the smiles and laughter that happens when we all come together. I only went to one of my class reunions and ended up hanging out with all the queer alums from the various class reunions. I realized, at least for me, the DGALA reunions were the most positive way for me to reconnect with other alums and enjoy each other’s company. It will also be great for everyone to see the finished Triangle Office and getting to interact with alums and students involved in this effort.

DGALA Spring Newsletter Available!

The Spring 2014 GREEN LIGHT is now available online! View our latest newsletter here: Spring 2014.
The GREEN LIGHT is the official newsletter of The Dartmouth Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Alumni/ae Association

Special focus in the latest GREEN LIGHT on upcoming DGALA events:
MINI REUNION: JUNE 13-14, 2014
ALL-CLASS REUNION October 31-November 2, 2014

Edited by Pete Williams ’76
e-mail: DartGALA@gmail.com

 

Pride Weekend @ Dartmouth College - LGBT PRide

Join DGALA June 13-14 in Hanover for our Annual Mini-Reunion

Join DGALA June 13-14 in Hanover for our Annual Mini-Reunion

All classes are invited and all events are FREE!
The tentative schedule for the weekend includes:

Friday June 13th

10:00PM – Midnight
DGALA Cocktails (Open Bar!)

Saturday June 14th

9:00AM – 10:00AM
DGALA Annual Reunion Breakfast with President Phil Hanlon ’77

11:00 AM – Noon
Special DGALA-Only Hood Museum Tour

2:00PM – 3:00PM
DGALA-Only Tour of Triangle House

6:00PM – 8:00PM
Informal Dinner with Students

DGALA dorm housing available for a limited time only!  For information e-mail dartgala@gmail.com.

4th Annual LGBT Women’s Pride in the Pines

4th Annual LGBT Women’s Pride in the Pines Dance Party
(Over 400 LBT Women Expected) 

When: Saturday, June 21, 2014.  2:30 – 6 pm
Where: Whyte Hall, Fire Island Pines

More info visit: https://www.hmi.org/womens-pride
Facebook event page: https://www.facebook.com/events/521866887891551

Host Committee Includes: DGALA, FFR/Princeton BTGALA, Yale GALA
For additional information about the event please contact DGALA Director Melanie Pastuck ’11 <mpastuck@gmail.com>

Dance Cost: $75 (before 5/1), then $90 (5/1 to 6/20) and $125 at the door (if available).  Tickets mostly tax-deductible.
RSVP: Advance tickets are available at HMI.org https://www.hmi.org/womens-pride

Join us on Saturday, June 21 in Fire Island for the 4th annual LBT Women’s Pride in the Pines Dance (400 women expected), including COMPLIMENTARY wine, vodka & hors d’oeuvres plus a great silent auction (fantastic high-end bargains in 2013, such as theatre tickets and travel).  Music by DJ/Producer Charo Velecio.  Dress code: Classic White.  Pride in the Pines benefits an LGBT charity each year (rotates): in 2014 HMI (the Hetrick Martin Institute) is the beneficiary.  HMI helps LGBTQ youth to reach their full potential, especially at-risk youth and homeless young people: 40% of homeless youth are LGBT and 30% are thrown out of their homes after they come out.  In 2013 over 75% of event proceeds benefited the designated charity.

To get to Whyte Hall from NYC: via Sayville Ferry (http://www.sayvilleferry.com – $16 round-trip) or take the special MTA LIRR-Ferry packages (take the Manhattan or Brooklyn LIRR to Sayville LIRR Station, transfer via Colonial Taxi to Ferry – $31 round-trip package) or via water taxi from any other beach on the Island.

 

Triangle House Webcast Video Now Online

View the Triangle House Webcast & Discussion

Learn more about Dartmouth’s new living and learning residence for LGBTQA students.

Presenters:
Dr. Reese Kelly, Assistant Dean and LGBTQ Advisor
T Kienemund ’15
Caroline Kerr ’05, DGALA President
Sylvia Racca, Executive Director of the Dartmouth College Fund 

Triangle House Webinar, Dartmouth LGBT

Triangle House Webcast with Dartmouth College

Dartmouth College and Dartmouth Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Alumni/ae Association invite you to a live webcast featuring a conversation with:

– Assistant Dean and LGBT Advisor Dr. Reese Kelly
– DGALA Board President Caroline Kerr ’05
– T Kienemund ’15

About Triangle House: Dartmouth’s new living and learning residence for LGBT students, opening October 2014

WEBCAST
April 2, 2014
4–5 PM EDT 

To register, please go to http://www.visualwebcaster.com/TriangleHouseWebcast
Participants will have the opportunity to submit questions live during the webcast.

2014 Reunion Registration Live!

LGBT Reunion - Dartmouth College

Register online now to take advantage of our limited-time Early Bird rates:  http://dgala2014reunion.eventbrite.com
For complete information and updates about the 2014 All Class Reunion, please visit our 2014 Reunion Home Page

Want to help with reunion planning? Have questions?
Email us at DGALA2014Reunion@gmail.com.

DGALA New York Happy Hour

DGALA New York Happy Hour

This winter has been a killer, so we are going to celebrate its imminent demise with a gathering at this great new “Cave a Manger”. Please join us!

WHEN: Wednesday, March 12th, 6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.
WHERE:OCabanon, 245 West 29th Street, New York, New York 10001
COST: No cover, cash and credit card accepted
DRINK SPECIALS: $5 Beer; $8 Wine; $10 Mojito

RSVP: Not required, but it is appreciated here.

DGALA Awarded 2013 Group of the Year

2013 Group of the Year:  Dartmouth Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Alumni/ae Association

“DGALA exemplifies thoughtful partnership.  Partnership amongst alumni members.  Partnership between students and alumni.  Partnership between alumni and the College.  Such partnership was very evident in 2013.

DGALA continues to demonstrate strong support of LGBTQA students at Dartmouth, on both an individual and financial level.  Through a partnership with the Dartmouth College Fund, DGALA members’ contributions made 2013 its third record-breaking year and resulted in the naming of seven DGALA student scholars. The group also maintains the Bourne Fund, which provides students with assistance if they enter financial crisis after coming out.  DGALA continues strong communication efforts with its members and the College, with regular newsletters, a wonderful website, a vibrant Facebook group and regular communication with staff.

The group’s leadership navigates issues adeptly and with a sense of balance, taking care to support the College as well as its members’ varying perspectives.  DGALA’s leadership sets high standards, is conscientious, insightful, and remains informed on College happenings.  Members exhibit a commitment to strengthening the College, as evident through their participation on various committees this year, which included:  the search committee for the new Assistant Dean and LGBTQA Advisor in the Office of Pluralism and Leadership (OPAL), the Triangle House planning committee, as well as, the Alumni Council’s Ad-Hoc Committee on Diversity & Inclusion.

As part of the 2013 June Reunions, DGALA organized a slate of engaging and thoughtful programs which included the annual breakfast with President Hanlon, a private tour at the Hood museum, a faculty lecture, a jam-packed cocktail hour, and a Q&A with Senator Kristen Gillibrand `88.  All of these events resulted in record attendance numbers.  The group continues to foster meaningful connections between its members and the College, coordinating programs in Hanover and beyond and has big plans for their upcoming 30th anniversary all-class reunion in October, which promises to be engaging and exciting.  We look forward to seeing it all come to fruition!

For all these reasons and more, we are proud to acknowledge DGALA as the 2013 Group of the Year.”

Full article: https://alumni.dartmouth.edu/awards/clubandgroupawards/DGALA

Denver LGBT Intercollegiate Alumni Mixer

Stanford Pride, Cornell U GALA, Dartmouth GALA, FFR/Princeton BTGALA & Harvard GSC Present
An LGBT Intercollegiate Alumni Mixer 
Denver, CO
WHEN: Thursday, February 6, 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM
WHERE: Ace Restaurant – http://www.acedenver.com
501 E 17th Ave, Denver, CO 80203
COST: No Cover, Cash Bar & Food
The Stanford, Princeton, Cornell, Harvard, and Dartmouth LGBTQ Alumni Associations invite you to join Ivy+ alumni and friends for an informal gathering in Denver.  We’ll meet at Ace Restaurant for drinks and conversation from 6-8 PM on Thursday, February 6, 2014.  We’ll reserve ping pong tables for spirited competition with old friends and new acquaintances. Connect and help us plan future programming and events in Colorado.  Our lesbian, gay, bi and trans alumni are especially welcome at this event.  Friends, partners, and significant others are also welcome!
Can’t make it but interested in sharing your input and/or being notified about future events? Please contact Jessie Dubreuil at jbd@stanfordalumni.org or RSVP using the link above.
Co-sponsored by Stanford Pride, Cornell U GALA, Dartmouth GALA, FFR/Princeton BTGALA & Harvard GSC. Co-hosted by Jacob Bregman (Princeton, HBS), Sarah Burgamy (Dartmouth), Jessie Dubreuil (Stanford), Fran Simon (Cornell, Stanford), and Tom Stephens (Princeton, Harvard).